in some groups they are "shared" between the leader and some of the group main men,or offered to donors,in several cases when you see people going on stage to give money and secretly talk to the leader,some of the guys "pick" the dancer they want at that very moment,or dancers are sent on mission to get lots of money from a donor,in some cases also they'd offer them to some of their friends in what they call gangbang or something like that