bro you are right but thats the new congolese mentality
nowadays in death of people in music,there is always ba musiciens ba ye te motema mabe,then the day of funeral affrontement jb werra na fally na heritier botala nani aleki na succes or there is always somebody who does something stupid which goes viral,x or y is not welcome 
rarely if not never we have a quiet peaceful funerals full of dignity