Before Hono, he used to be with Julie Zulema(known for the song La Rose Verte sung by JB Mpiana & Lumière ya Trocadero of Viva la Musica). It’s due to deceptions in his love-life that he never wanted a women anymore in his life, because alll girls ended up by cheating on him. But others say that he just used those girls to hide his real-life and that Niarcos’ friend (I won’t name his name by respect) and later a man he used to sing a lot in the early Big Stars-days, used to be his boyfriends.
It has been said that he made a girl pregnant, when he used in Kisantu. But him refusing to recognize that child. It apparently made the father of that girl angry, who cursed him, which turned him in a woman (gay)and him never be able to get. child. This rumor is already 30 years old, but always denied by Défao and his family.