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Music => Congolese Music => Topic started by: archos on December 01, 2025, 22:01
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LOL the way she's put women and girls who see the lives of their parents through her case on a massive meltdown by revealing they were a couple since 2008,lol you can tell she's had enough of being hammered on 5 6 7 hours of lives for years now
her interview already showed signs that she is not at all that innocent manipulated woman by koffi that people thought including those attacking her,but she seems to have decided to show that she is no pushover,and i believe koffi lowkey likes that since at the end of the day his two long relationships are with women of strong character
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So the one of 2008/09 was 'kokanga lopango' (engagement) ? Because I remember Digitalcongo writing back in 2008 that Koffi had traditionally married Cindy
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yeah they probably did predot in 2009,dot in 2010 then civil in 2012 like she said
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The crazy part is between the years 2008 to 2018, Koffi sang songs dedicated to Aliya (Grand Prêtre Mère, 12eme dans, Patronne and Alidor) so did these songs not mean anything ? This is messing up my head lol. I guess Cindy really isn’t as innocent as she looks
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I never doubted Cindy's love for Koffi, I'm happy they're still together. Of course, I wished it wasn't at the expense of Quartier Latin but you know we all deserve a little happiness in this life
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Cindy used the literal oldest trick in the book and Koffi fell for it, rather quickly at that as we’ve come to officially know. “She got my boy whipped” as we say nowadays
She has been one of the few women that has tamed him sustainably aside from mere Amy and maman Ruffa to a degree. All his previous wives tried to put aside the infidelity and domestic treatment issues due to his fame and it didn’t work out after a period since he got bored or they had enough. A reverse taming of the shrew situation
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So Cindy and her family allowed all that while knowing Koffi is married to Aliya and the rest of the world knows this. I’m soo confused
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The crazy part is between the years 2008 to 2018, Koffi sang songs dedicated to Aliya (Grand Prêtre Mère, 12eme dans, Patronne and Alidor) so did these songs not mean anything ? This is messing up my head lol. I guess Cindy really isn’t as innocent as she looks
Nah this songs means something. Cindy was just second or third wife but Aliya was the first. Since she‘s gone, Koffi got Cindy as first.
This second wifes things are still part of our culture. I do not find it good but if both wifes are ok with it, it doesnt interest me
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I‘m a little surprise about the comments here. I got contacts with my family in Angola and there are still uncles and grandpas i know, they have a official second wife. The wives know it and are fine with it. I think this was the same thing with Koffi but as Didi Stone became older she rebeld against it and the mom started, too.
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Obviously you cannot do this in the US if he has another wife. But I didn’t know Cindy was actually married to him. The albums she has seem like Koffi albums.
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The crazy part is between the years 2008 to 2018, Koffi sang songs dedicated to Aliya (Grand Prêtre Mère, 12eme dans, Patronne and Alidor) so did these songs not mean anything ? This is messing up my head lol. I guess Cindy really isn’t as innocent as she looks
All male species are polygamous by nature. It’s Biology. You must be in a special category that are practically and mentally monogamous. I’ve never met one yet😂😂😂
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lol people dont realise that koffi got married about 10 times or something in kinshasa,many of his top kin sidekicks of each eras got at least the traditional wedding,what annoys me though with cindy's case is that people have double standards,some of his albums had like 60 70 per cent of songs either directly dedicated to his wife and his sidekicks and traditional wives or undercover when the song selling became increasingly lucrative and he would sing to willy musheni or whoever while he is singing about cindy or patricia and co
so people are not annoyed that koffi would date for example a director of cabinet of a ministry in congo brazza,a bank officer from cameroon,a multi business owner in congo... they dont realise that the guy had affairs with women of a much lower social standard than cindy( which is what annoys most women who can go on up to a 10 hour rant on tiktok),that is even the principal reason why they love having affairs with their dancers since they are the quickest available but best believe they will not miss out on a beautiful/bootyful orange seller or something if she's the one close at the moment their testosterone is on fire
heritier for example gets very criticized about that
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lol people dont realise that koffi got married about 10 times or something in kinshasa,many of his top kin sidekicks of each eras got at least the traditional wedding,what annoys me though with cindy's case is that people have double standards,some of his albums had like 60 70 per cent of songs either directly dedicated to his wife and his sidekicks and traditional wives or undercover when the song selling became increasingly lucrative and he would sing to willy musheni or whoever while he is singing about cindy or patricia and co
so people are not annoyed that koffi would date for example a director of cabinet of a ministry in congo brazza,a bank officer from cameroon,a multi business owner in congo... they dont realise that the guy had affairs with women of a much lower social standard than cindy( which is what annoys most women who can go on up to a 10 hour rant on tiktok),that is even the principal reason why they love having affairs with their dancers since they are the quickest available but best believe they will not miss out on a beautiful/bootyful orange seller or something if she's the one close at the moment their testosterone is on fire
heritier for example gets very criticized about that
Exactly. You are so right about it!
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My thing is I don’t give a damn about who he’s married to or who he sleeps with that’s his personal life. I only care about music and that’s my issue cause the guy is so whipped that Cindy has seriously messed up his music artistically.
That being said I’m also with JV why would her family let her marry him knowing that he was married to Alya at the time considering Cindy was 25 at the time.
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koffi used his seduction tools,houses cars and so on were involved
about her destroying i would mainly fault koffi,because at the end its koffi who could not make it work to have her and an attractive quartier latin together,its also him who adapted to his competition in following the fally ferre model of a very self centered system after a little period of trying to promote but facing "quick disappointment" which "made them shut the door",its also him again who is mad insecure and kicked out all those who could keep quartier latin alive(joss,jitrois asso and co who knew her before as petite na bango ya quartier na tshangu,or as a session artist)
lol one of my guys around montfleury said once that they held reunions around really pushing harder guelor or try to promote omba who arrived for not too long brought in by jean goubald and a drunk koffi could not resist saying what seems to be his inner thought which was that guelor was too handsome and he could end up attracting her :D :D
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My thing is I don’t give a damn about who he’s married to or who he sleeps with that’s his personal life. I only care about music and that’s my issue cause the guy is so whipped that Cindy has seriously messed up his music artistically.
That being said I’m also with JV why would her family let her marry him knowing that he was married to Alya at the time considering Cindy was 25 at the time.
Everybody is given cindy the fault in this situation but then lets look at every other singer in congo. Why did their music decline and we need to remenber Koffi is a person, who loves to adapt to time and loves to challenge but there is no challenge beside Fally. He did already everything.i don‘t think he takes music anymore serious but where is everybody who started with him. Look at us we are still reviewing his music or personal live here
Its part of the african culture, which i do not agree with but i do tolerate it. There are poor familys, who are going to accept that there daughter is now the second wife of Koffi and could help the rest of the family with Money.
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I just realised something her saying this couldn’t this get Koffi in trouble if Aliya decided to file a complaint or for spousal/child support because it would show that Koffi was married to two woman at the same time or na?
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I just realised something her saying this couldn’t this get Koffi in trouble if Aliya decided to file a complaint or for spousal/child support because it would show that Koffi was married to two woman at the same time or na?
I don‘t think he is legally married to her. I think he only did the kanga lupangu thing. Which is our traditionel wedding.
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they have legally married recently either in france or before her return to france(after the years of koffi not travelling) but i think it was last year