that behaviour is actually common in congolese music, i know a girl who has been F...friend to werra, koffi,,heritier,bouro,bill,jipson...at least 15 known guys but she is a married girl
its also one the reasons bouro left the second time of quartier latin(before recording album with his brother alain),he found her and koffi in bed and koffi told him,if he is not happy he can create his mpela musica