If I'm not mistaken, isn't Fabregas wife from Europe, like Nana Ketchup? I guess they are the exception, because she was patient as he invested a lot of time in Kinshasa establishing Villa Nova
I don't blame the women in Poto for refusing the marriage of musicians, that lifestyle is too chaotic. Out of the year, those women only see their husbands 3-4 months out of the year and that's being generous because those months have their husbands performing in different halls throughout Switzerland, France, Belgium, and UK.
In the era of social media, it's much faster for musicians to get paid than before. I can only imagine how Spino, Doudou Copa, Reddy Amisi, and others would try splitting their income between home in Kinshasa, their families in Paris, and keeping up the appearance of successful celebrities. At some point, pressure for a more stable job will force them to keep music as a hobby or radically embrace their art... destroying the marriage.